YES! You've got a crush, you fall in love, you date, you get along, you fight, you part, you move on, you've got another crush, you fall again, and so on! Those happen, right? I mean, it's always been that repetitious cycle. Many people, even perhaps, every body has been there, some even have been there for like hundreds time before they finally make it. Things are utterly unpredictable with this so called love. Sometimes you feel so damn confident with your security, but in the end you've still got to face the loss which sucks of course.
But hey, isn't it good to be given the chance to acknowledge so many different states about life? So that if your daughter one day told you how miserable it felt to be left behind, you would confidently be able to tell her how to get rid of it. Besides, imagine if one has never fallen in love or say, had a crush on somebody, how odd is that? how boring life can be? Rather a bore, isn't it? I mean, crush is one of those stuff that keeps you going to school excitedly and gleefully, right? Without it life would be a total crap. Well, OK, that's when I was a school girl. Now I go to school excitedly as I think it would be a lot boring if I stayed home the whole day, like the WHOLE day. But that doesn't mean that I go to school as I have no other option. NO! I love school! I adore my students, and I believe they adore me too. But it's just that other type of love we're talking about here. You know what I mean, don't you?
Anyway, the awful thing about this love life is we tend to expect this fairy tale's happy ending for ours. Excuse me? Doesn't anybody ever tell you that not all fairy tales have a "happily ever after"? Sometimes it's just a "once upon a time". Yes, I know it's sometimes very hard to deal with, but at least you have the memories. No body can take that away from you, not even your lost lover. So just face it! You cannot have all good stuff, but at least you can still see the good side. Try to be wise to yourself, will you?
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